I think and change my mind until I make a decision.
Until THE SIGN appears. The sign can be anything. A quote, a line, a phone call, a friend I go to see how she's doing because I haven't seen her in a while and she smiles at me in a certain way, even if she's more miserable than me, or a dream in which I know exactly what someone really feels.
I wake up and move on. I've lost someone before, I've found someone again, or I've met the right person, a person I resonate with.
This SIGN is always like that yellow arrow on the Camino that I was looking for so I wouldn't get lost - and, in fact, since then my life has been full of such yellow arrows that I've been looking for to show me the way.
It's a puzzle that I'm solving faster and faster, with even greater confidence and with an abandon that those around me don't understand. This is because I know that the SIGN is always there and will show itself to me at the right time. I know that there is no coincidence in anything, but only a sign for each one of us.